Over the past few months we have seen some changes in our children, and not necessarily for the good. The kids have been arguing much more often among themselves. The attitude of disrespect has been elevated in our teenagers and it has been rubbing off on the younger ones. Kris and I came together and had a long discussion about this in December and made a plan for the New Year on how to rectify this situation. We love the Lord and want our children to grow in discipleship to God as well as to become great examples as they shine their lights into the world.
Here’s a peek into our plan….
For the month of January we have been studying “Christian Virtues”. The first thing that we do in the morning after breakfast is to pray over our day and thank God for it. After that we all open the Bible and read/discuss different verses on the topics we are discussing. For example, over the last two weeks we have looked at different verses discussing our speech, what our speech should be like, and how important our speech is to God. Everyone is involved in this, even Elijah who can’t yet read the Bible (He sits quietly and listens and I make sure to involve him in questions and explanations) I am the one who leads this devotion in the mornings as part of our school-day (Brandy).
Here are a few of the verses we have looked at in our morning devotions:
Genesis 11:1,7,9 1:27, 2:18-20, Luke 1:20,64- Speech is a gift from God and He is insistent upon our obedience
Genesis 2:18-20- God designed us specifically for speech
Psalm 34:1, 50:23, 145:5 Proverbs 11:11, 14:25, 15:1, 16:24, 25:11-13, Ephesians 4:14-15- Our speech is to praise God. When we speak it should be to encourage and uplift others. Our speech should glorify God and so we shouldn’t misuse this gift
Psalm 10:4,6,11 James 3, Ezekiel 35:12-14 Romans 1:21, Proverbs 11:9, 12:18, 18:8 Matthew 12:34-35- Our speech is to be pure, not cause division or be immoral. We should not complain and argue.
Nehemiah 1:1-11- We should use our speech to communicate with God in prayer (Jesus is our example. Look at how many times he left the crowds to go and pray. If he had to stay in direct communication with the Father, how much more important should it be to us?)
After school is finished I spend some extra time with Elijah about different ways to use these lessons in his life. I have chosen to use our reading time for this. Here are a few of the books that we have been looking at to go along with this study. He has really enjoyed them and I can definitely see the change in his behavior after this time together.
Your local library will usually have a section on manners and being a good citizen. You can ask the librarian to help you find this section. We have really enjoyed reading these types of books together. I have about 5 different books about praise to God and His great creations (which I encourage Elijah to notice and thank God for). I also have about 5 books on manners, such as not interrupting, being respectful, bullying, etc. It has been really good because I can link these things back to our speech lesson from the morning devotion. The “Praise the Lord, My Soul” book is just beautiful!!
In the evenings, after dinner, Kris leads the family devotion time. This one is a little over Elijah’s head for understanding but he has enjoyed sitting, listening, and asking questions.
In this study we have been looking at the different Christian Virtues in the Bible. This includes Devotional Life, Love and Compassion, Contentment and Stewardship, Humility, Speech, Purity, Honesty, Faith and Trust, Obedience, and Christian Service.
Kris has each person look up a verse listed and read it out-loud, then we all discuss it and answer any questions listen in the study for that verse. We take turns doing this so that everyone has practice looking up verses and reading.
Here is a link to the study we have been using. Even though it’s from a different denomination than we are a part of, it has EXCELLENT coverage of these Biblical topics! You can either order a copy of the booklet, or you can use the free PDF version and print it out.
The biggest evangelism and discipleship assignment that Kris and I currently have are our children. We cannot assume that in just two hours of church a week that they are receiving all the Biblical knowledge that they need. Teaching our children about God is OUR JOB and it goes hand in hand with the church.
But be careful to not just teach- You must also LIVE IT in front of them.
I hope this helps inspire you to dig into a deeper study of the Scriptures with your family. Have fun learning and making necessary changes together as one.
What are you currently studying with your family? Leave me a comment below and help inspire others. 🙂